Have u all experience something lidat?I think is quite a nature of life whereby people are 90% surely experience this.
In virtuality the stories goes like this:
U are the main character.You have ordered to go somewhere far to conquer some monster(Ok at this point here juz imagine u have power and magic).Along the journey you will have buddies join you for the prigrimage and set the journey together.
But along the journey, your buddies will leaves u.Some may have injured, some may have their own other personal problem, worse that some may have die along the journey.Those buddies u used to had when during the journey are your best frenz and they together provide your safety and joy along the joruney.They shared same experience with you and same level with u.
The main problem is they leave you when you guys are highly leveled.
So at some point u will end up going through the journey alone.And other time,other buddies will join u for the prigrimage.Those newly joined buddies may not be your best frenz and they do have much more weaker point than the previous buddies u used to had.
After some time of the journey, your newly joined buddies have their standard and they slowly become good frenz of yours.
But but but after some other time,they will leave you when u reach certain stages.Then there u are back to alone again.
And maybe some other time reaching some other stages, u will still have newly buddies join u for the journey.
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What i trying to ask is, dun u all feel very down and very unbearable when your long-term buddies need to leave u?All your good buddies tend to leaves you when u reach certain stages.Is like some kind of cycle.
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Let me explain in real life.The story goes like this:
When i step into kindergarden, there used to have some kids as my fren.But after 2 years of kidnergarden, is time to go primary school.Is time to make new frenz and 99% of your kindergarden frenz have to be memories.
After u and your newly made frenz in primary schools(Imagine the time u guys play and work together),u guys start to be close in 1 another.
But after PSLE graduation, they are part of memories and seldom got the chance to meet up.The relation are not that close anymore.Despite the technology at that time, there is no such thing call msn or friendster for u guys to keep in contact.Only house phone.But who will really go bother about calling house phone to keep in contact???
When step into secondary, i do make some good frenz and of cos,the stage in secondary are the hard one.The frenz u make might be some wolf cover in sheep skins.Those are the stage where human being are undergoing advance maturing.Is not ez to find close frenship as u used to had in primary school.
So when my O level come, after graduation(Too bad there is no prom night),most of us keep in contact at msn or friendster.This is becoz most of us will be going either poly or jc.Some go ITE.And thus, the hardly earned frenship is not as close as together once again.
Even if we keep contact in msn or some end up in same poly, they have their own current buddies with them.Is impossible to ask them out so easily(frenship closeness is not that close as used to be).All of them have their own newly joined buddies.Even me, i had another bunch of newly joined buddies who are working and playing with me.We are another team again.
I got this feeling, after we graduate, all of us gonna become a no lifer who only noe how to work.Till that time the hardly earned closeness gonna be tasteless again.
And that time u may have working buddies who joined u.
Some other buddies may had joined your journey due to your working or other program.
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Above all i dunno u all had gone thru or not.Best is if u all can leave a comment on it.Cos i am interested to noe.Thx.
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BaHaMuT @ 10:50 PM
